Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarily basedon mutual trust and only secondarily on institutions such as courts ofjustice and police.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.

Talkback to your internal critic. Train yourself to recognize and write downcritical thoughts as they go through your mind. Learn why these thoughts areuntrue and practice talking and writing back to them.

Freedom is not caprice, but room to enlarge

We gain freedom when we have paid full price for our right to live.

Alexander's last wrds: Bury my body, dont build any monument. Kip my hand outside,so dat d wrld knws,who won th wrld had noting in hand wen dyin.

Men of genius are admired, men of wealth are envied, menof power are feared; but only men of character are trusted.

Insteadof suppressing conflicts, specific channels could be created to make thisconflict explicit, and specific methods could be set up by which the conflictis resolved.

Nobody everforgets where he buried the hatchet.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Differentfields, different grasshoppers; different seas, different fish.

When makinga decision of minor importance, I have always found it advantageous toconsider all the pros and cons. In vital matters, however, such as the choiceof a mate or a profession, the decision should come from the unconscious,from somewhere within ou