Theharder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph.

People who do not believe in miracles are not realist.

Conflictinvolves incompatible behaviors rather than competitive goals.

To teach isto learn twice.

Resolvingconflict is rarely about who is right. It is about acknowledgment andappreciation of differences.

Ittakes time to save time.

Responsibility is the high price of self-ownership.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

When weblame, we give away our power.

Changemeans movement. Movement means friction. Only in the frictionless vacuum of anonexistent abstract world can movement or change occur without that abrasivefriction of conflict.

The exercise of power is determined by thousands ofinteractions between the world of the powerful and that of the powerless, allthe more so because these worlds are never divided by a sharp line: everyonehas a small part of himself in both.

As if you could kill time without injuring eternity.