Marriagemeans expectations and expectations mean conflict.

Charlie Chaplin said"Life laughs at u when u are unhappy Life smiles at u when u are happy But, Life salutes u when u make others happy"

One ofthe lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and alwaysa clever thing to say.

Assumptionof cooperative goals leads to viewing the conflict as a common problem to besolved for mutual benefit.

Drown not thyself to save a drowning man

The true test of intelligence is not how much people know how to do, but how they behave when they don't know what to do.

Standingin the middle of the road is very dangerous; you get knocked down by thetraffic from both sides.

Donot wrong or hate your neighbor for it is not he that you wrong but yourself.

Keep things informal. Talking is the natural way to do business. Writing is greatfor keeping records and putting down details, but talk generates ideas. Greatthings come from our luncheon meetings which consist of a sandwich, a cup ofsoup, and a good idea

The World is but, a school of inquiry.

Remember not only to say the right thing in the right place, but far more difficultstill, to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…