People whoare too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successful andfeel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation, or between extrinsicand intrinsic motivation...

Loving without dreaming is like going to Venice without riding in a gondola

Byfailing to prepare you are preparing to fail.

We areall faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised asimpossible situations.

Do not tell me the problem is a difficult one. If it were not difficult, it would not be a problem

The purpose of getting power is to be able to give itaway.

It's notthe size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.

Teaching may contribute to certain kinds of learning under certain circumstances.

When aman says that he approves something in principle, it means he hasn't theslightest intention of putting it in practice.

Conflictisn't negative, it just is.

We ownalmost all our knowledge not to those who have agreed but to those who havediffered.

Allmarried couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art ofmaking love. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Goodbattle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle ofequal partnership.