Have adialogue between the two opposing parts and you will find that they alwaysstart out fighting each other until we come to an appreciation of difference... a oneness and integration of the two opposingforces. Then the civil war is finished, and your e

A merefriend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.

Somewherethere is a map of how it can be done.

It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier tobe sometimes cheated than not to trust.

In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

I haveoften regretted my speech, never my silence.

Religion is behaviour and not mere belief.

Tobelieve in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

A book, tight shut, is but a block of paper.

The property of power is to protect.

To start blindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness,and will lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Most of our so-called reasoning consists in finding arguments for going on believingas we already do.