Whenyou plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. Youlook for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water,or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with ourfriends or our family,

When you ask from a stranger that which is of interest only to yourself, always enclose a stamp

The real great man is the man who makes every man feel great.

Well-managed,cooperative conflict contributes to the productivity and innovativeness oforganizations and the competence and well-being of people.

Ability is poor men's wealth

The mostintense conflicts, if overcome, leave behind a sense of security and calmthat is not easily disturbed. It is just these intense conflicts and theirconflagration which are needed to produce valuable and lasting results.

All our rightousnesses are like filthy rags

Let us nevernegotiate out of fear. But let us never fear to negotiate.

There is no comparison between that which is last by not succeding and that what is last by not trying.

Power does not corrupt men; fools, however, if they getinto a position of power, corrupt power.

Tranquility will roof a house, but discord can wear away the foundation of a city.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony