All marriedcouples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of makinglove. Good battle is objective and honest never vicious or cruel. Good battleis healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equalpartnership.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

The means by which we live have outdistanced the ends forwhich we live. Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We haveguided missiles and misguided men.

We thought, because we had power, we had wisdom.

We have no more right to consume happiness without producing it than to consume wealth without producing it

What is well done is done soon enough.

Whoeverhas the mind to fight has broken his connection with the universe. If you tryto dominate people you are already defeated. We study how to resolveconflict, not how to start it.

He who asks a question is a fool for five minutes; he who does not ask a questionremains a fool forever.

I am atpeace with God. My conflict is with man.

No one was ever really taught by another; each of us has to teach himself.

You can't unscramble an egg.

You've gotto know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, knowwhen to run.