Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

To believe in something, and not to live it, is dishonest.

Nobody everforgets where he buried the hatchet.

The real great man is the man who makes every man feel great.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

It ishard to change our point of view in a conflict. Most often, it is because weare not nearly as interested in resolving the conflict and possibly creatinga new ‘pearl’ as we are in being right.

Itisn't that they can't see the solution. It's that they can't see the problem.

Windowsof opportunity exist for only a brief moment in time, you have to have visionin order to spot them, and take advantage of them.

Forbidden fruit can get us into a real jam.

... That may appear as the truth to one personwill often appear as untruth to another person. But that need not worry theseeker. Where there is honest effort, it will be realized that what appearedto be different truths are like the countless and apparen

Themost important of life's battles is the one we fight daily in the silentchambers of the soul.

If you arepatient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.