In aconflict, being willing to change allows you to move from a point of view toa viewing point a higher, moreexpansive place, from which you can see both sides.

Considerhow hard it is to change yourself and you'll understand what little chanceyou have in trying to change others.

Manners make the fortune of the ambitious youth.

To start blindly with a statement is a sign of arrogance and narrow-mindedness,and will lead to conflict. To start blindly with a question is a sign ofuncertainty and honesty, and will lead to wisdom.

Originality is the art of Concealing your Source.

Nevermiss a good chance to shut up.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…

Somewherethere is a map of how it can be done.

It isdifficult to negotiate where neither will trust.

Night is the blotting paper of many sorrows.

If you are patient in a moment of anger, you will escape a hundred days of sorrow.

Slander cannot destroy an honest man: when the flood recedes the rock is there.