The ultimate measured a man is not where he stands in marents of comfort, but whre he stands at times of challenge & contraversy.

The merit belongs to begineer; should his successor do even more better.

Onemight as well try to ride two horses moving in different directions, as totry to maintain in equal force two opposing or contradictory sets of desires.

By being pleasant always and smiling, it takes you nearer to God; Nearer than any prayer.

Cooperativeconflict builds people up, strengthens their relationships, and gets thingsdone.

Don'tstand by the water and long for fish; go home and weave a net.

If we shake hands with icy fingures, it is because we have burnt them so horribly before.

A man, when he burns, leaves only a handful of ashes. woman can hold him. the wind must blow him away.

Thetruth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feelingdeeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in suchmoments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of ourruts and start searching for di

The difficultpart in an argument is not to defend one's opinion, but rather to know it.

A merefriend will agree with you, but a real friend will argue.

Constantrepetition carries conviction.