Saying i luv u is important, but not enuf. Love is a verb, an action word. Sumtyms passive because it happens to us but also active because we choose to do it.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not to twist them to fit our own image. Otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
If someone throws a stone towards you, throw love towards him but if someone throw love towards you, then sit for a while & think becoz love hurts more than stone.