d word "honcho" cums 4m a Japanese word meaning "squad leader" & first came into usage in the English language during d American occupation of Japan following WW II
If somebody leaves u with lots of tears.. then just save them safely. later wen a person who cums 2 u with happiness, then just compare the saved tears and present happiness. If happiness overcomes your tears .... Then i am sure you have found your BEST FRIEND.