The possession of power over others in inherently destructiveboth to the possessor of the power and to those over whom it is exercised.

If youcan make a man laugh, you can make him think and make him like and believeyou.

The fibers of all things have their tension and are strainedlike the strings of an instrument.

A matter that becomes clear ceases to concern us.

When youcannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action youshould take choose the bolder.

Effectivecommunication is 20 percent what you know and 80 percent how you feel aboutwhat you know.

Status symbols are medals you buy yourself

Peoplespend a lifetime searching for happiness; looking for peace. They chase idledreams, addictions, religions, even other people, hoping to fill theemptiness that plagues them. The irony is the only place they ever needed tosearch was within.

Tofight fear, act. To increase fear wait, put off, postpone.

No onecan persuade another to change. Each of us guards a gate of change that canonly be opened from the inside. We cannot open the gate of another, either byargument or emotional appeal.

Never play cat and mouse games if you are a mouse.

Informationis a negotiator's greatest weapon.