Most of the shadows of this life are caused by our standing in our own sunshine.

Conflictis neither good nor bad. Properly managed, it is absolutely vital.

Girls .. . were allowed to play in the house . . . and boys were sent outdoors. . .Boys ran around in the yard with toy guns going kksshh-kksshh,fighting wars for made-up reasons and arguing about whowas dead, while girls stayed inside and played with dol

There are three ways of bearing ills of life: by indifference, by philosophy, and by religion.

Theultimate test of a relationship is to disagree but hold hands.

Lower your voice and strengthen your argument.

Nevercut what you can untie.

Nature arms each man with some faculty which enables himto do easily some feat impossible to any other.

Power can be taken, but not given. The process of thetaking is empowerment in itself.

You can't change people, but you can channel them your way.

Thedifference between the right word and the almost right word is the differencebetween lightning and a lightning bug.

The numberone goal in resolving a conflict is to make sure both sides maintain theirself-esteem.