Ifthere is any great secret of success in life, it lies in the ability to putyourself in the other person’s place and to see things from his point of view as well as your own.

Whenconflict becomes a win-lose contest in our minds, we immediately try to win.

Conflictleads to less-than-adequate performance, resentments, and lack of motivation.

The past is always dogging our heals, striving ceaselessly to banish the present.

A goodplan is like a road map: it shows the final destination and usually the bestway to get there.

Thegreatest lesson in life is to know that even fools are right sometimes.

The oldbelieve everything, the middle-aged suspect everything, the young knoweverything.

The cause of liberty becomes a mockery if the price to be paid is the wholesale destruction of those who are to enjoy liberty.

We cannot always control our thoughts, but we can control our words, and repetitionimpresses the subconscious, and we are then master of the situation.

Life imitates art far more that art imitates life.

Itis all right if you talk to yourself. It is all right if you answer yourself.But when you start disagreeing with the answers, you've got a problem.

Peoplewho are too concerned with how well they are doing will be less successfuland feel less competent than those who focus on the task itself... Somepsychologists call it a conflict between egoorientation,or between extrinsic and intrinsic motivation…