When indoubt, ask. When not in doubt, ask. If you are not in doubt, you may bekidding yourself.

Peaceis not the absence of conflict but the presence of creative alternatives forresponding to conflict alternatives to passive or aggressive responses,alternatives to violence.

Humoris the affectionate communication of insight.

You've gotto know when to hold 'em, know when to fold 'em know, when to walk away, knowwhen to run.

Usenon-verbal communication to SOFTEN the hard-line position of others: S =Smile, O = Open, Posture, F = Forward Lean, T = Touch, E = Eye Contact, N =Nod.

Never[enter] into dispute or argument with another. I never yet saw an instance ofone of two disputants convincing the other by argument. I have seen many ontheir getting warm, becoming rude and shooting one another.

We ownalmost all our knowledge not to those who have agreed but to those who havediffered.

Poetry is the impish attempt to paint the colour of the wind.

The worst form of injustice is pretended justice.

No one was ever really taught by another; each of us has to teach himself.

I haveoften regretted my speech, never my silence.

Livingwith integrity means: not settling for less than what you know you deserve inyour relationships. Asking for what you want and need from others. Speakingyour truth, even though it might create conflict or tension. Behaving in waysthat are in harmony